Embracing Those Who Say The Wrong Thing
Have no fear of perfection – you’ll never reach it.
– Salvador Dali
I have this friend of mine who always says the wrong thing. I tell her, “I have to go to the mall to buy a new pair of pants.” Her response is, “Oh because you gained weight huh?”
She means nothing ill by it, I’ve come to notice that it’s just a part of her personality and I absolutely adore it. I adore it because it’s who she is. She will always say the wrong thing.
If someone always puts their foot in their mouth or otherwise embarrasses themselves, why run away from it? You should embrace it and them and draw inspiration from it. They’re being who they are, they’re living freely while you stay in your little box pleasing others. I’m guilty of people-pleasing too, so I live vicariously through these other people. They have the strength to be who they are, I feel I have to maintain status quo.


